Warm Idea

If the world seems cold to you,
Kindle fires to warm it!
-Lucy Larcom


Lucy Larcom was an American poet born in Boston in 1824. She died in 1893. She was the ninth of ten children and worked in a cotton mill at which her mother was the superintendent for ten years beginning when she was 11 years old. Her work earned much needed money for her large family. While working she wrote songs, poems, and letters about her life.

Another nice thought

Finding ourselves takes time. It is
hard work and it is worth doing.
- Anne Wilson Schaef

Anne Wilson Schaef, Ph.D., is the author of Women's Reality and Co-Dependence. She is a lecturer, organizational consultant, former psychotherapist, and workshop leader who trains health care professionals throughout the world in Living Process Facilitation. She lives in Boulder, Colorado.

Moving Toward the New Year

As I reflect on 2008, I am feeling compelled to ask myself how I have touched other lives in my behavior this year. I always generate personal goals for the upcoming year and would like my objectives for 2009 to include personal transformation. We know that change in the world begins with change in ourselves.

The end point of leadership is not just the position of power we reach, but the continual change and deepening we experience that makes a difference in our lives, our work, our world.
- Janet O. Hagberg

Thought provoking message

Rugged individualism, a cherished value in American society, can cloud our vision, causing us to forget that leaders ultimately serve others.
-Delorese Ambrose

I really like this quote. I feel like our future President may actually understand the pitfalls of rugged individualism.

I also like the sound of this woman's workshops. Check it out www.ims-online.com/faculty.

A priest in South Carolina has told his parishioners that they should not take communion if they voted for Barack Obama unless they confess their sin of cooperating with "intrinsic evil". No joke. The evil of which the good father speaks is abortion. Barack Obama is pro-choice and is, therefore, evil.

Although one might be tempted to dismiss this self-aggrandizing proclamation as typical wingnuttiness, the problem is this type of hateful speech promotes violence. The priest calls abortion an "abomination that cries out to Heaven for vengeance". Some weak-minded crackpot is devising his plans for holy war as we speak.

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cool quote

The people who dream are very often the people who see,
and dreaming and seeing precede doing.
-Margaret E. Sangster

Margaret E. Sangster was an American author and editor during the 19th century. She is most noted for her work as an editor for Harper's Bazaar. She was first published in 1855 when she was seventeen for a story called "Little Janney".

Keith Olbermann Defends Gay Marriage - and brings tears to this blogger's eyes

More straight men should stand up for gay marriage rights the way MSNBC commentator Keith Olbermann did last night.

Natalie at the Obama acceptance speech

Check out this great blog post from Natalie Balthrop, from Lyndsay McCandless Contemporary, who attended Obama's acceptance speech in Chicago!
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THE BEST DAY!

Your tax dollars promoting "absitence until marriage"

This just in from Feminist Daily News Wire:

"Healthy Marriage" Funds Improperly Used to Promote Abstinence

A report issued on October 27 by the Government Accountability Office (GAO) found that some recipients of grants from the Healthy Marriage and Responsible Fatherhood Initiative—run by the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS)—have used the funds impermissibly for abstinence-only education.

"HHS officials told us that abstinence education was not allowable under the Healthy Marriage program," reads the report, "but we observed during our site visits and review of grantee data several Healthy Marriage grantees operating programs that focused on abstinence education."

The study, which was requested by Rep. Jim McDermott (D-Wash.), also found that HHS—operating under a shortened deadline process—"did not fully examine grantee's programs as described in their applications."

Both programs are designed to serve low-income and minority groups. The Healthy Marriage programs, targeting teenaged youth primarily, are supposed to promote marriage and relationship activities; the Responsible Fatherhood programs, targeted at incarcerated parents, are designed to provide parenting skills. The Deficit Reduction Act of 2005 appropriated $150 million in grants each year from 2006 through 2010 to implement the Initiative. But it diverted funds from programs designed to support those living in poverty, such as Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF), to programs promoting marriage.

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Vote!

Hey Jacksonites! Maybe you knew this already but we can vote early in Wyoming. We don't have to wait for next Tuesday. So if for any reason you think your Tuesday schedule will be too busy or hectic to make it to your polling station, stop by the County Courthouse today and vote!
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To Scan or not to Scan

I'm linking to this new article on The Slate by William Saletan talking about ultrasounds, birth defects and abortion. In the article, he discusses the conundrum facing pro-lifers regarding the increasing sophistication of ultrasound technology. Pro-lifers, particularly through their sham Crisis Pregnancy Centers, have long championed the ultrasound based on the presumption that a woman who sees the fetus on a screen will be less likely to terminate the pregnancy. However, ultrasounds also have the potential to reveal possible birth defects which might lead a woman who wanted to bring the pregnancy to term to consider abortion. Pro-lifers say they want the pregnant woman to have all the information. Does that include information that the child might be born with a fatal condition that would result in a short, painful life?

Moreover, the "improvement" in ultrasound technology has resulted in many more false alarms and false positives that can scare the wits out of expecting mothers. My sister's first ultrasound revealed a cyst in the fetus's brain that was "indicative" of a certain birth defect. After a week of panic (she had already had one miscarriage), the second ultrasound showed that the cyst had disappeared. It is possible that these scans are now showing normal development processes that earlier scans did not.

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Sarah Palin: the anti-intellectual boor

Can I just say how tired I am of her? The more we learn the more frightening she is. Recently she criticized government funding for fruit fly research as wasteful and went on to comment that some fruit fly research actually takes place in Paris, France. If she took a moment to read a paper or ask someone with some knowledge on the issue, she would learn that the study of fruit flies had led to important advancement in the study of genetic disorders and defects, including those that have impacted her own family. Of course, when you don't believe in science or evolution I suppose the study of DNA sounds like a bunch of elitist, liberal, Parisian mumbo jumbo, gosh darn it.

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Have you seen this yet?

The Vet Who Did Not Vet.

A ramble after a long absence

Hi everyone. It's Mary W. aka Meg D. writing here. Sorry for my embarrassingly long absence from blogging. Life has been chaotic, but I won't bore you with details. Besides, what's far more interesting is what's going on in the country right now with the election just around the corner! Here in little liberal-outpost Jackson, I see more Obama bumper stickers than McCains... but I have noticed a flurry of McCain/Palin lawn signs sprouting up the past few days. Having lived in Portland, Ore. and San Francisco in recent years, I'm still not used to working and socializing with people of varying political stripes. Thing is, I'm not really down on Republicans per se, I just cannot understand how anyone could have ever supported Bush/Cheney, and I understand even less (if that's possible) support for McCain/Palin. On this note, I've been enjoying NY Times conservative commentator David Brooks' analysis of what's gone wrong with the GOP.

And don't get me started on She of the Taxpayer-Supported 100K Wardrobe. If you haven't yet seen Saturday Night Live's Tina Fey doing her rendition of Sarah Palin, go to the SNL site immediately and check it out!

Speaking of mixing it up with people with different viewpoints here in Wyoming - which I get the opportunity to do far more often than I did on the Left Coast - I had an illuminating talk the other day with a Pro-Life friend. Because we are already friends, we both approached the subject of abortion rights with respect for one another's perspective. She talked to me about her Catholic faith and how it informs her views on life being sacred. I talked about my own ethical perspective on abortion as a complex component of ensuring lives with positive futures. I was surprised and delighted that my friend and I ended up agreeing on key issues like focusing on preventing unplanned pregnancies as well as not restricting legal access to abortion. I learned a good lesson about listening and respect - it is these sorts of conversations that I think our country needs more of. I encourage you to take a chance and talk with someone you know thinks differently than you do about an important issue. See if you can discover any areas of agreement. Your incentive? You'll be well-prepared for the kind of unity and change President Obama will usher in next year!
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Deconstructing Elaine

Planet Jackson Hole, Oct 8, 2008.

"Interruption during the first trimester of a first pregnancy causes a cessation of cell differentiation..."
Well, yeah.
If a pregnancy ends, the body will respond accordingly and stop performing functions that go with pregnancy, such as changes in breast tissue, whether the interruption is spontaneous or induced.

"...which may result in a subsequent increase in the risk of cancerous growth in these tissues."
Hmm. Really? I see the word "may" there as well as no quantification of the amount of risk.
According to Elaine's ad, this was found on the Planned Parenthood website on Sept. 5 1997. A quick search of PubMed finds some interesting results. Several articles concerning a link between abortion and breast cancer came out in the late 90s, a majority of which reported a link.
5 or so years later, a new round of articles came out, pointing out biases in previous papers and/or correcting poor experimental design. It is tricky to ensure that you don't bias your results, and multiple areas of concern must be addressed (are you comparing spontaneous abortions to induced abortions? women who have birthed to those that haven't? were these first pregnancies and abortions or were there completed pregnancies before the abortion? etc.)
I was intrigued to find that political bias is allowed to shine through your "journal." I hadn't encountered it so directly before, but my previous searches on this website were for work and didn't address this issue or similarly political issues. There's a pro-life journal (I see you and your bias, Issues in Law and Medicine) that regularly publishes papers and submits them to PubMed. Hope my taxes aren't funding that research!
Anyway, the latest papers (2007, 2008) seem to still have some mixed results on this issue. Those that found a strong link usually have authors that always find a strong link but most papers conclude there is very little to no increased risk of breast cancer linked to abortion.

Women in Politics

The best leader does not ask people to serve him, but the common end. The best leader has not followers, but men and women working with him.
- Mary Parker Follett (1868-1933)

As we prepare to watch this evening's vice presidential debate, let's reflect on the insight provided by an American social worker, consultant, and author of books on democracy, human relations, and management. She coined phrases like "conflict resolution" and advocated the principle of power "with" instead of power "over".

Sarah Palin Action Planning Meeting TODAY in Jackson

>> TIME TO MOVE!
Please attend an organizing meeting for the
Girls and Women for Obama show of support
to coincide with the Sarah Palin Fundraiser
presently scheduled for September 24 at Teton Pines
All those who can help plan, execute and attend a hand-in-hand show of support for Obama that will line the bike path to the entrance of Teton Pines please attend this meeting. Women outside of Teton County are encouraged to come so contact all whom you think could join in.
Wednesday, September 17 @11:30
Oswald Gallery
165 North Center Street
Please bring friends, ideas and commitment (lipstick, optional)
Questions/comments please contact Mary Woollen mjwoollen@msn.com
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Give to PP in Palin's Name!

This great idea came via my friend Kirsten:

Make a donation to Planned Parenthood. In Sarah Palin's name.
And here's the good part: when you make a donation to PP in her
name, they'll send her a card telling her that the donation has
been made in her honor. Here's the link to the Planned
Parenthood website:

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/

You'll need to fill in the address to let PP know where to send
the "in Sarah Palin's honor" card. I suggest you use the address
for the McCain campaign headquarters, which is:

McCain for President
1235 S. Clark Street
1st Floor
Arlington , VA 22202
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Voter Responsibility

There are two ways of meeting difficulties: you alter the difficulties, or you alter yourself to meet them. -Phyllis Bottome This is the story of our Grandmothers and Great-grandmothers; they lived only 95 years ago. Remember, it was not until 1920 that women were granted the right to go to the polls and vote. The women were innocent and defenseless, but they were jailed nonetheless for picketing the White House, carrying signs asking for the vote. (Lucy Burns) And by the end of the night, they were barely alive. Forty prison guards wielding clubs and their warden's blessing went on a rampage against the 33 women wrongly convicted of 'obstructing sidewalk traffic.' They beat Lucy Burns, chained her hands to the cell bars above her head and left her hanging for the night, bleeding and gasping for air. (Dora Lewis) They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her head against an iron bed and knocked her out cold. Her cell mate, Alice Cosu, thought Lewis was dead and suffered a heart attack. Additional affidavits describe the guards grabbing, dragging, beating, choking, slamming, pinching, twisting and kicking the women. Thus unfolded the 'Night of Terror' on Nov. 15, 1917, when the warden at the Occoquan Workhouse in Virginia ordered his guards to teach a lesson to the suffragists imprisoned there because they dared to picket Woodrow Wilson's White House for the right to vote. For weeks, the women's only water came from an open pail. Their food--all of it colorless slop--was infested with worms. (Alice Paul) When one of the leaders, Alice Paul, embarked on a hunger strike, they tied her to a chair, forced a tube down her throat and poured liquid into her until she vomited. She was tortured like this for weeks until word was smuggled out to the press. http://memory.loc.gov/ammem/collections/suffrage/nwp/prisoners.pdf So, refresh my memory. Some women won't vote this year because-why, exactly? We have carpool duties? We have to get to work? Our vote doesn't matter? It's raining? Last week, I went to a sparsely attended screening of HBO's new movie 'Iron Jawed Angels.' It is a graphic depiction of the battle these women waged so that I could pull the curtain at the polling booth and have my say. I am ashamed to say I needed the reminder. All these years later, voter registration is still my passion. But the actual act of voting had become less personal for me, more rote. Frankly, voting often felt more like an obligation than a privilege. Sometimes it was inconvenient. My friend Wendy, who is my age and studied women's history, saw the HBO movie, too. When she stopped by my desk to talk about it, she looked angry. She was--with herself. 'One thought kept coming back to me as I watched that movie,' she said. 'What would those women think of the way I use, or don't use, my right to vote? All of us take it for granted now, not just younger women, but those of us who did seek to learn.' The right to vote, she said, had become valuable to her 'all over again.' HBO released the movie on video and DVD. I wish all history, social studies and government teachers would include the movie in their curriculum I want it shown on Bunco night, too, and anywhere else women gather. I realize this isn't our usual idea of socializing, but we are not voting in the numbers that we should be, and I think a little shock therapy is in order. It is jarring to watch Woodrow Wilson and his cronies try to persuade a psychiatrist to declare Alice Paul insane so that she could be permanently institutionalized. And it is inspiring to watch the doctor refuse. Alice Paul was strong, he said, and brave. That didn't make her crazy. The doctor admonished the men: 'Courage in women is often mistaken for insanity.' Please, if you are so inclined, pass this on to all the women you know. We need to get out and vote and use this right that was fought so hard for by these very courageous women. Whether you vote democratic, republican or independent party remember to vote.